Recovery from codependency is possible. We must look at the shame of trauma and conditioning. As we come out of denial, get support, and heal, we no longer look outside for validation. We are whole.
@j0vintage When I traveled to Spain last summer there were orange trees all over the little town. I figured it would be illegal but I asked my host family if you can pick them and they JUMPED to tell me not to touch the trees. Governments are bad lol
Depression is also getting up & going to work everyday, keeping up with yourself, laughing, putting on makeup, going out with your friends. Functional depression is also very real.
idk who needs to hear this but THE POINT OF REUSABLE WATER BOTTLES IS TO HAVE VERY FEW OF THEM. LIKE 1 OR MAYBE 2. BECAUSE THEYRE REUSABLE. SO U DONT NEED A BUNCH OF WATER BOTTLES. BECAUSE U REUSE THEM.
A person who has grown up suppressing every single thing they feel can end up one of two ways, over stimulated which leads to outbursts or being able to express themselves but going overboard because this is a first for them.
This is where balance must be fostered with kindness.
For awareness, under the secure 2.0 act your student loan payments can count as retirement contributions to be matched by your employer. Meaning if youβre making student loan payments but not contributing to your 401k, your employer can contribute on your behalf starting 2024.