@adampollock It’s completely down to decorations outside the house, when I took my kids we’d only knock on doors that had some kind of Halloween decor, any plain was an indication of not wanting to be disturbed.
I've watched narcissists: Destroy people's careers, reputations, mental health, and still play victim. They'll burn your life down then cry about the smoke. And people will comfort them.
Feeling sorry for an abusive person is not compassion-it’s enabling.
Asking those who were hurt to consider their abusers past is not understanding-it’s enabling.
Putting the wellbeing of an abuser before the healing of who they’ve hurt is not healing-it’s enabling.
Covert #narcissists really are the most devastating and manipulative because you just don’t see what they are.
They invest so much into pretending to be your friend and someone you can trust but the whole time they are just analyzing and contemplating and figuring out what the best responses to manipulate you are going to be, what emotions you respond well to, and what you don’t. And you might really think they are your best friend. And that’s what makes it so devastating if not impossible to see through it.
The covert #narcissist really is the wolf in sheep’s clothing.
@tescobankhelp I’m trying to send paperwork re my new car insurance policy but I can neither register or log in I’m going round in circles, can you help?
@jack_improtaB Came accross your post & I’ve been through the exact same thing, went through the tds for about 5k he tried to get, my deposit
was about £900. I ended up getting all my deposit bar £20 back. Worth using them he sounds like a complete arse like mine was! Keep going with it!
@RhiaCrewe Yes v recently I got told by a close but ignorant family member who said that my trauma induced breakdown that I’m still recovering from I’ve made all about me & I’m being immature & narcissistic & victimising myself! I’m a bit stunned! Love to all dealing with stuff like this x
The second wave is about to hit. Many of us have been warning about this for 2 years. You don’t shut society for months on end without getting a huge economic blowback. The cost of living crisis is the cost of lockdown crisis.
How was it not obvious that locking people up for months on end; abandoning normal healthcare; shutting schools and generally reducing the population to a cowering wreck would have profound long term consequences?