as an adult: your boyfriend should not be saying things like that. it does not matter that he does not know about your ED. he should not be encouraging this.
you deserve better.
community notes L because eating disorders can impact bone density and hormone development but
1. are more likely to develop in trans people
2. most trans people recover if given gender-affirming care
3. dysphoria can cause more damage long-term
you might as well get hrt
Reliefmaxxing by only eating once im starving, drinking once i'm severly parched, sleeping after staying up too long, using the bathroom after holding it for a while, and so on