@owand_ Lembrando que o pessoal golpista é organizado, com método e manuais de como adaptar os golpes pra diferentes faixas etárias e informação sobre gostos e personalidades disponíveis na internet. Não é "só" ingenuidade individual.
One time, I boarded a flight and sat next to a woman who won 8 pistol shooting championships…
AFTER she turned 50.
She radiated main character energy:
“If you want to be a high level competitor, you have to clean house. In your heart, mind, and soul. You have to work out any problem you have internally. Eliminate all jealousy and hatred. Forgive everyone. For everything. You need to feel calm in the heart. Find forgiveness, kindness, and total harmony with the universe. And then you set a goal, put in the work every day, and wait. Wait, wait, wait. Tell yourself that it will take 5 years to get your foot in the door, 10 years to become good, and 20 years to be the best.”
@kelseyhightower Not sure if there's this "who I really am" thing... There's at most a tentative way to describe ourselves in a specific situation, with the limited tool that language is, that at the second you finish describing, seems already obsolete (and incorrect for other situations)...
@dave_reis The insight I liked the most is that front line managers currently don't have the vocabulary. I think they themselves struggle thinking that the message about work life balance is contradictory to a message of stronger work, of changing how you do work.