The worst thing social media did to this generation was make hardworking people feel secretly ashamed of having a corporate job.
Every day, millions of capable professionals do high-impact work creating products and services all of you use every day.
Then they log off, and scroll online... only to be shamed into thinking they are "wage slaves" because they are not running a solo startup or pitching a digital course.
Soooo much BS.
It is actually creating a silent mental health crisis, making people feel like failures for choosing stability and order and steady growth over isolated hustle.
I think it is a dangerous narrative that is setting many up for burnout and financial disaster, except they will only find that out in a few years...
Young people are being sold a total lie that 1-person startups are easy money.
The reality is of course that solopreneurship is marketed as ultimate freedom, but for most, it is total isolation.
You trade 1 corporate boss for 20 demanding clients, 0 benefits, no safety net, a constant background hum of financial anxiety, it's a 9-5 vs 24/7.
I have been working in enterprise for two decades now, and actually just marked 10 years at my current firm.
Let me tell you, it's great.
While gurus sell fake $99 dreams online, I have spent 20 years getting paid to learn.
I have built real compound wealth and operated at a scale a solo founder running on AI wrappers will likely never touch.
Corporate is a paid masterclass. It is a protective moat and a foundation for a great life.
"Oh but now with AI, everything will change!!!!"
No it won't. It never does. It's never different.
Or, better, it's always different and it always changes, and it is entirely up to you what you're going to make out of it.
It is possible one day I will start my own thing. Sure. I think I'll be really good at it.
But if/when I do, it'll be because the opportunity demands it, not because I let an online guru make me feel like a coward for having a steady income.
The internet these days glorifies loud hustle over longevity.
But if you are really successful, why would you need to post about your freedom every 5 hours?!!
Instead... Consider doing it differently.
Build your skills, compound your money, and call your own shots when you are ready.
All the best.
Men are more attractive when they’re confident. Bad guys often have a little extra confidence than nice guys, which is why women always choose bad boys over a nice guy. Nice guys are a turn-off for women. They hide themselves and their true intentions behind their politeness and niceness, directly signaling a lack of confidence in ourselves. Be confident: not to get chicks but to elevate yourself as a man.
But deep feminine pleasure lies in a man who remains present and loving during her outbreak of emotions.
How a man handles chaos in a woman. That's how he handles chaos in the world.
If he's a master of female emotions, he masters all aspects of life.
you want to know the secret? there is no moment where you feel ready or receive a permission slip from the universe.
greatness is trespassing. doing the work you’re not qualified for, in rooms you don’t belong in, until reality rearranges itself around your audacity.
I beat social anxiety in early 20s by training for it like a sport. Always scan for chances to talk to friendly strangers of diff ages, genders, ethnicities. Go alone to events, restaurants, stores, etc. Consistently getting your reps in builds resilience to failure/rejection
@Rhino13RL @damienslash@krishk@BBCNews Truly dreadful comprehension. 500k-700k refers to legal migrants, not asylum seekers.
Do you genuinely believe the “vast vast vast majority” of legal migrants pay a huge amount in fees, which I will imply means you think they are net fiscal contributors?
@goonerbred47@LimitlessBruce@CrimeLdn Distraction techniques while others try to restrain him 😂😂
Are you genuinely listening to yourself? What role would you have played in this? This has served as a timely reminder why society is in decay. Wish you all the best.
@goonerbred47@LimitlessBruce@CrimeLdn “Restrain him until help arrives” 😂😂
Would you kindly ask him to put his hands behind his back? Did you see the state of him?
So categorically useless and counterproductive are you people, you would almost certainly be running the other way. You should have no say in this.
@HarleyShah It wasn’t even something that crossed the minds of the elders, it was simply something that happens.
There wasn’t even a decision to be made.
The modern day selfishness has introduced a decision, and has consequently taken us to the brink.
@data_barbs How does it not make sense? She’s witnessing a haemorrhaging of millionaires like there’s no tomorrow, and realises it is simply unfeasible to double down on it with a wealth tax.
@mdowstfl @coffndrop@barbourtwat I admire your balance and reasonableness, it’s evident you’re genuinely considerate.
But in the absence of an actual answer as to what should be done, I’m not sure we’re in a position to lecture others on what not to do, it feels extremely ‘ivory towers’.
@waltfinc@Noahpinion Extremely evident you had the tourist mindset.
You have no idea how everything is crumbling for us citizens that live and breathe this everyday.
I don’t expect you to understand, but please do not trivialise the UK decline as ‘weather’ related, it comes across as facetious.
@All4nDev @cri_babe No way you watch a movie at 2x?!
I listen to podcasts and YouTube vids at 2.5x, even 3x, but that’s mainly to just digest the content.
A movie is meant to be an experience, with every scene and dialogue timed to the director’s perfection.
Speeding it up is blasphemous.