When you stop reading books, you lose your sharpness of speech, critical thinking, and imagination. A closed book is a closed mind. DON'T EVER STOP READING.
The most liberating thing you can do as a woman is to unlearn shame. Shame is one of the lowest frequencies. Release the shame around your sexuality, your body, people's perceptions of you, around what you actually enjoy, and the rigid structures that society tells you about.
I have a theory that, since Covid, people have increasingly lost the capacity to emotionally regulate themselves and have largely turned to unconscious energy vampirism as a result. as a spiritual person, never in my life have I felt the need to protect my energy from THIS many people, THIS often.
People are truly not well. You can feel it everywhere.
For everyone asking how you do this. You OBSERVE, not ABSORB.
OTHER PEOPLES FEELINGS DO NOT NEED TO BECOME YOUR OWN. YOU DO NOT NEED TO COMPLETELY ENMESH YOURSELF ENERGETICALLY. YOU WISH THEM THE BEST, HELP IF IT IS NOT HARMING YOU AND KEEP IT STEPPING
A big realization for a lot of people is they need to stop daydreaming about what they could be. It’s super easy to think you're meant for big things, but if you look at your everyday routine, it often tells a different story. There's this huge gap between what you say you want and what you actually do. You might talk a big game about being ambitious, but deep down, your discipline is just… average. Lot of people want a life of plenty and amazing results, but they're only willing to put in a regular amount of effort. This ends up making them rely on other people to believe in them, even when their own actions don't really back that up.
Thinking about your potential can feel nice, like a comfy blanket that makes you feel special without having to prove anything. But discipline? That busts the whole illusion. It forces you to actually work for the life you claim you deserve. At the end of the day, what you truly want is shown in your habits; everything else is just talk.