growing up and realizing you do not care about being the toughest person in the room is so liberating. fighting is not the answer to every little thing someone says about you. youโre not untouchable and life is short so why fight with someone who wonโt matter in a year from now?
@brownandbella@Miya_AngelNO I think people have to remember that discomfort is also subjective to your preferred norm. Discomfort may mean challenging but that doesnโt equate to toxic..or loveless. Trying things a new way is uncomfortable..but if the cost-benefit analysis weighs outโฆyou push through.
Big ups to everyone who can honor an expired relationship or connection for what it was, and not get caught up in what they thought it would be. Lesson learned. Contract complete.