Dating someone with no curiosity about you sounds exhausting. If you’re not curious about me, you don’t like me. You can be attracted to me. You can enjoy my attention. You can like how I make you feel. But if you don’t wonder what I think, what I love, what makes me laugh, what makes me quiet or who I am beneath what you can see then you don’t like me. You like the experience of me.
it amazes me how no man who ever tried to pursue me has genuinely cared enough to dig deeper into who i am as a person, my thoughts, my life, how i built any connection in my life, its so easy to tell how they’re only attracted to me physically
The older I get, the more I realize why Yaqub (AS) said, 'I only complain of my suffering to Allah' [12:86]. People don't understand your pain, and neither can they comfort you the way Allah can and does