@bigbbintoyland one time i was at a show and their wasn't much going on other then me and my friends shoving each other around, a kid in a BU sweatshirt came up and with so much hope in his voice asked "is this a mosh pit" & I didn't have the heart to say no & he just started hopping up & down
also queers who stick so closely to labels & dismissing older generations language because it makes them "uncomfortable" &"they didn't have the language then" are so fucking disrespectful & condescending thinking that these people didn't know exactly what they were saying
queer people can discover themselves at any time and age and thats great BUT queers who figure it out in college all through academic talk and view it through those lens need to shut the fuck up more
"Actually transMASCS can be lesbians but transMEN are gross men" shut the fuck up jesus christ go back to gender studies 101 if you cant handle being in real queer spaces