Unpopular truth: my husband comes first. Above my parents, my siblings, even my kids. Not because I love anyone less, but because I understand what actually holds everything together.
Walk with me >>>>> a 🧵
In my 30s I’ve learned to never compromise my comfort and happiness. You make me uncomfortable, I distance myself. You make me sad I disappear.
If you ever make me question my own sanity, I leave. No explanations
Nikiwa high school nilisave nilisave 3500 for four years and decided to use that money in a business venture, mzazi akaniambia ninunue mbuzi ya harika and I did, after joining Campo the end of the first semester nikaenda home ku angalia my investment juu nlkwa nimechocha girlies
I had a friend who set her boundaries so firmly that I barely see her anymore. At first, I thought I did something wrong. Then I realized.. sometimes people just don’t align. I finally started taking notes and setting some of those same boundaries for myself. I get it now.
Not everyone is qualified to know where you live. Some friendships should end at the church, the office, the road, or the market. Not everyone deserves to enter your home. Privacy is power
Every woman I know in her 40s or 50s is cooler, hotter, wiser, and more badass than she was in her 20s and 30s. The anti-aging industry is lying to you. Don’t let them exploit your insecurities to sell you shit you don’t need for problems you don’t have.
Some doors opened in your life without explanation… that wasn’t luck. You know it. Grace ignores tribe, accent & surname. Grace doesn’t make noise. It just quietly rearranges your future. Some blessings arrived before your behaviour improved. Grace is like that. May God’s grace be with you.