The world map you've known all your life is wrong! Nearly every country at the UN voted to adopt a new map that shows a more accurate size of Africa after ~500 years of "symbolic minimization."
Only the US voted against it.
I explained why this is important on CNN
The United Nations General Assembly voted Friday to adopt a new world map that makes the African continent bigger while shrinking North America and Europe, drawing ire from Washington.
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One of the most uncomfortable truths in relationships today is how money changes dynamics between men and women, yet very few want to openly admit it.
For many men, success and financial stability often ignite a sense of responsibility. They start thinking about settling down, building a family, and creating stability around them. Money becomes a foundation for care.
But for many women, money often represents freedom. It becomes the key to unlock the option of walking away. Some begin to see financial independence as a reason not to need anyone, especially the man beside them. What was once “our life” quietly shifts into “my life”. They start to think about walking away from family.
That’s where the silent power struggle begins. Instead of money building unity, it becomes a wedge. The conversation moves to comparison. Pride steps in. Suddenly, it’s no longer about us but about proving a point.
We’ve all seen it play out. A woman rises in her career, starts earning more than the man, and soon, even the tone in the house changes. Small things, a simple request for food, are no longer met with love or care, but with dismissive gestures and sarcasm. “The food is in the fridge”, as she points to the fridge with her leg, “you can warm it”. After that, she leans back on the chair, scrolling endlessly through TikTok, detached from the relationship right in front of her.
Others go further—throwing divorce parties, celebrating “singlehood” with slogans like “I don’t need a man,” and publicly congratulating themselves on both Father’s and Mother’s Day. Some rebrand themselves as “baddies,” offering loud advice to others on how to handle men, all while their own homes stand on shaky ground.
Of course, not all women walk this path. Many still know how to balance love, respect, and independence. But the trend is undeniable. It’s in our daily encounters, in how people speak, in how relationships silently collapse.
What is often laughable is that when you bring it up, it’s denied. Vehemently. But reality doesn’t lie. Respect and humility are the first casualties when money enters the room, and too often, love is the last.
I have no problem with women making money—in fact, I encourage it. But the actions that follow often reveal whether money built them into better spouses, or simply gave them a stage to showcase pride.
Like Congo, Ghana, Nigeria, Kenya, we do not have presidents, we have plantation supervisors—those who rule us on behalf of their masters in Europe and America. Colonialism never ended
I met Dolly Parton once backstage at a concert. She was so incredibly gracious, warm, and kind to everyone. At one point, she leaned over to me and whispered "Ruto Must Go" Eternal rest to Dolly, she was such a darling and a legend!