"But yari, what should men do then to be good men?"
Nothing, focus on being a good person u can't fix sexism but by being manly in a different way. Ok, not everything is about you
"Non toxic masculinity is when you protect others"
I hear this n similar and it's stupid and misogynistic, because it implies that being feminine makes you worse at protecting ppl
I hate it when ppl say nonsense like this and act like they are the enlightened guy
I feel like the only real reason ppl sexually assault others is in order to gain some twisted sense of power over them
like just doing it for sexual satisfaction doesnt make sense imo cus anybody knows that having sex with somebody that doesnt want it feels terrible