Game theory explains why working harder inside a broken system is the worst response to that system. Because a system is never truly broken. It's just producing exactly the outcomes its own incentive structures were designed to produce, whether intentional or not. Working harder inside this system increases your output in the payoff matrix, but it simply won't change the actual structure of the system's matrix. Thus, the correct response is not more effort. Instead, you must aim to identify whose interests the current structure serves and position yourself in favor of those interests rather than against them. Change the game, or play the game that is actually being played. Either way, you must stop optimizing for the game you wish it to be and start acting realistically.
This is another thing we’re yet to talk about..
Might sound somehow, but it feels like the worst thing to be to a Woman is a Boyfriend/Husband
The side dudes, FWBs, sneaky-links, male friends and the rest usually gets majorly the BEST VERSIONS of a Woman.
While the committed guy gets the tantrums, attitude, almagiric behavior, weaponized incompetence alongside EVERYTHING the sneaky-links and besties can enjoy too
Why do you think their FWBs/ Male Besties almost never want to have them in a committed relationship ?
10 LIFE HACKS/ADVICES MANY OF YOU PROBABLY NEED AND SHOULD KNOW FROM EARLY ADULTHOOD:
1. Life is much better when no one knows anything about you.
2. Never force anyone to choose you. Never beg to be loved. Choose genuineness and naturalness.
3. If you don't work to build your own dream, someone will hire you and use you as a tool for achieving theirs.
4. Free yourself from the chains of society's advice. Most of them have no idea what they are doing.
5. Your are at peace with yourself when you mind your own business.
6. Life WON'T wait for you to be okay. Get up from your comfort zone and keep pushing.
7. Master your emotions. A clear and calm mind can handle any situation.
8. You need to take people for who they are, not want you want them to be. This way, you avoid disappointment and learn to live in harmony with your environment. You become happier.
9. Make sure you take care of yourself cosif anything happens to you, the world would move on.
10. Be smart enough to create your opportunities. Don't wait for them to come to you. Working to create them is a form of PRAYER which will be answered someday.
Spread this if you found it helpful. Someone might need it on their journey to maturity.
A few weeks ago someone gave my husband moose meat
(Yeah google moose to see what the animal looks like).
Man brought it home and said we should try it. I told him there was no way my Nigerian tongue would caught near moose meat.
My husband decided to make stew with it. When he started frying it, I nearly puked. It had this distinct flavour that was so alien
For days I did not even want to use the same pot to cook.
So we just dumped it in the freezer. Oga kept begging me to cook moose meat. I said “nahhh fam”
Weirdly, my husband loved it and kept cooking it for himself. Another time he made stew and put his moose in one corner of the pot while I ate my regular chicken.
One tiny piece of moose found it’s way on top my rice. This time, it did not taste or smell as bad
Another time, another piece of moose entered my plate. Not only did it not taste bad, it actually tasted beefy to me
My beloved brothers and sisters in Christ, guess who went to the freezer to use the remaining moose to make stew some days ago?
Yup, me!
And this is my way of reminding you dear child of God that when you keep allowing things that you know don’t please God around you, you’ll be amazed at how much you can adjust to start doing things you swore you would never do
Like me, you can go from being nauseated by moose meat one day and using it to make stew the next.
The command is to “flee”
Not adjust
Not tolerate
Not say cook your own one side and let me cook on the other side
The Bible says flee
Your no stronger than Samson o
Blessings!
6yo: What’s the biggest number?
Me: There are an infinite number of numbers so there’s no biggest one.
6yo: What’s the biggest number you know the name of?
Me: A googolplex.
6yo: Which is bigger, a googolplex or a googoobazillion?
Me: There’s not a number named a googoobazillion.
6yo: If there are an infinite number of numbers, there must be one named a googoobazillion.
Checkmate.