Widowed…by accident

Navigating life through grief and hoping to get some of it right! Missing the life we had together 😓💔

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11 months and I’m still limping. It’s less painful but the limp is still extremely pronounced.
Hugs for those who are limping too.

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Have done a lot of firsts recently. Was asked the other day “I bet ‘occasions’ like this (his son’s milestone birthday) make it so much harder, doesn’t it?”My reply “Not really. It’s hard every minute of every day.”Thank goodness they don’t ‘get it’, they’d have the loss I have.

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@ricphillips I hear you. We’re not alone, there are people who are grieving too…but we’re alone. 😞 9 months here too Big hugs xx

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@oldknitwit Thank you. Today was a better day 🥰

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9months in. I’ve been ok recently but the grief train has just hit me this weekend. All I’ve done is cry. How can this really be my life? Sending love to all you grievers out there. It can be a lonely place but we’re in this together. 💔��

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@Dc5997Arlene I hear you. Sending you a big hug. 😘🙏🏻🤗

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@Maxandanniesfa1 Yes, I think, sadly, it does get harder in small doses but the rough-feeling times have longer pauses in between…I think. Hugs for you. 🤗🙏🏻

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@Lightbuthearty Totally agree! Hugs back to you xx

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@muggleplantmom Thank you. Yes. 3 days this time of snot and tears. Hopefully a few days of less sadness will follow (today has been less emotional!) xxx

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@dontnowhat2say 🙏🏻

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@cbarcus64 Thank you. 🙏🏻 for you too. We didn’t ask to be here but here we are. The longest and shortest 9 months ever get? Xxx

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@ladystardust31 Yes they do. Hugs back to you. It does get easier. Little by little. 😘

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@littledonna7 Yep. That’s the one! Hugs 🤗 Although sometimes it comes outside all of a sudden and without warning!)

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8 months in. Life is ok. Not back at work yet - soon. Have realised I’m great at acting ‘ok’, who knew?! But I’m overwhelmingly sad…just so sad. It’s real and he’s never coming back. Ever. No vision for a future and no motivation to do anything that would’ve involved him. 😓

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@suzanne_monteil Oh my word. What a lot to take in. I really hope you have some wonderfully caring and supportive people around you. 🙏🏻😘

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@HighetSheila So sorry. I hope it eases soon 😘

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@PyleErin I get that. Sending hugs back x

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@stephen501 Yep same for me on all counts. I know God has a plan for me but I’ve no idea what it might be and struggling to listen well enough! Xx

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@ElliottMAppel Thank you. I need some more greenery! 😉

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@ricphillips Same length of time for me too. It sucks, doesn’t it? Hugs for you xx

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@SuddenWidow Amazing. You can do this! 🥰