If you break up with someone and they dont crash out, they don't beg you to come back, they don't go out partying and drinking irresponsibly, but instead start working on themselves, going to the gym, read books and taking care of themselves. I'm sorry to inform you that they truly did love you and you lost a real one. Its your loss
I can’t stand a ngga that’s tit for tat like your main purpose as a…. man is to lead and be logical, so why are you mirroring me and ts i do out of emotion? who tf gone be the man if we both acting like btches?
“He has childhood trauma.” So do I.
“He’s under a lot of pressure at work.” So am I.
“He’s just overwhelmed.” Me too.
The only difference is that we excuse men’s behavior, and shame women for not carrying it.
I highly recommend letting people know that you're capable of madness from time to time. Especially if you are a quiet,soft spoken person. Disrespect sometimes needs to be met with disrespect.