Coronavirus version 1- Sars. 2003
8,096 people got SARS and 774 have died.
Coronavirus version 2 - Covid-19
552,785.918 6 people have got Covid-19 and over 6.4 million have died.
Coronavirus version 3-????.
Science starts to play with this in 1965
https://t.co/0agY6pF6fe
I will say this, until there is no one left that needs to hear this.
Maybe you do not relate to this exact story, but if you have toxic adult relationships now, stemming from childhood trauma, please consider reading.
Her story is not my exact story, but I relate to childhood abuse, turning into adult toxic, abusive relationships.
Every single relationship, was the same crap, different face, over and over.
First, a little bit about her trauma story:
Her mother abused her and she has maintained no contact.
She developed a pill addiction from said abuse, and overcame that.
She is strong, I am proud of her.
Unfortunately, we all see now, she married an abusive man, and now both he and his mother continue to manipulate and abuse her.
Knowing full well, she has no support, was abused as a child and is currently alone + scared with only $100,
in a motel, after a traumatizing stillborn pregnancy
This is how they treat her.
They disgust me.😡Cockroaches.
(I fully support the revenge posts I read, I do hope this mother and son cockroach duo are bestowed with the misery they intentionally hurled at her. They deserve it. Ok, i needed to get that off my chest)
Not enough people, talk about how re-traumatizing is it to have toxic adult relationships.
My childhood was terrible, but my God, my adult life wasn't any better. Unfortunately, all over the world, from all walks of life, this is typical for people you have childhood trauma.
If in anyway you relate, please know there is a way out.
I promise.
Childhood trauma/abuse, in all forms, has an insidious way of negatively altering what normal and healthy is to us.
We are most vulnerable to abusive people, we are most vulnerable to being taken advantage of. We are most vulnerable not because we are bad, but because this is familiar to us, in some way.
Our tolerance levels to abuse is unfortunately, disgustingly high:(
Our parents conditioned us, through abuse, to see the function of relationships in a very distorted way.
I am not trying to scare you away from relationships, love, connection and community.
I just want to explain how we pick, how we move, has to be much, much more careful.
Be discerning, always. The stakes are simply higher.
I say all this to say, please know how important it is to:
▫️move slowly with all new people
▫️please take your time vetting people
▫️listen to your gut instinct the 1st time, and
▫️you must learn new skills, that your childhood abuse robbed you of.
One of the most vital skills I acquired: Walk Away.
I wish I knew how vital walking away, quickly and easily is.
I attached to people quickly and found walking away hard, always.
Even if I didn’t have the words to explain the exact abuse, I felt it.
I felt unsafe, I was always anxious, I wasn’t happy.
My body was telling me, but I wouldn’t listen.
I ignored those instincts as a kid, and here I was doing it as an adult
It's hard, but I argue it’s one of the most important life skills for us.
The more you walk away from toxic/abusive people,
the easier, it eventually becomes.
Walking away begins the process of lowering your tolerance to abuse.
This is important. Please read that again.
I wish I saved myself the years of stress, disappointment, frustration, anger, heartache and accepted the truth. This is toxic, this is so damaging to you, it's re-traumatizing.
I wish I said to myself "Please leave, it will feel/be hard, but you will regret the wasted years more. I promise’
It was all I knew, and I paid the price.
It took a level of life energy from me, because I let things go on too long.
It was so exhausting from years of toxic relationships and no support.
I am years into my healing path, and have no more toxic relationships.
Be it romantic, friendship, family.
If it doesn't serve me, help me, heal me, isn't happy and healthy, I do no want it. 💜💜💜
I hope in some small way, this helps someone struggling.
Scared to leave, ashamed and alone.
I see you, I was you. I understand. 🙏
This was hard to write, but even though I’m nervous, I’m going to post.
Please consider sharing this with someone who is struggling, like I was. They are not alone.
Hi, thank you for asking in an inquisitive non judgemental way, I appreciate that so much:)
Here are some of my thoughts:
I know they are controversial but I believe in them wholeheartedly
We've gone too far with glorifying forgiveness.
The whole "forgive and forget" thing is just another way for abusers to get away with their behaviour.
People should be held accountable for their actions.
Forgiveness is a byproduct of true repentance, accountability and change on the part of the asshole.
If they don’t feel bad, take full responsibility, try their hardest to make things better and show they’ve changed, there is zero to forgive.
You should process what happened to you, accept it (to prevent denial) and move on from that cockroach but you never, ever NEED to forgive anyone for your own mental health & happiness.
That is a lie, created by lazy manipulators, who wants full forgiveness for no work on their part.
We are owed contrition, real repentance.
They are never owed forgiveness.
We have twisted what is expected by whom and why.
You don't have to forgive. Process - yes, it leaves you better off. But you can still think that you've been wronged by a piece of s**t. Move on and have a great life, without them and with no forgiveness for them.
Forgive yourself for ignoring the red flags, being naive, not setting boundaries, for being desperate, not listening to your intuition, for wasting years, not leaving the 1st or 20th time it happened. Forgive yourself and please learn from what happened to you.
Never lose the lesson.
But remember you never NEED to forgive them.
Let God figure that out.
The Voice is NOT sparking racism.
The racism against First Australians has been alive and boiling like volcanic lava since 1788!
The Voice is being used by racists and blatant opportunists like Mundine, Price and Thorpe for their own grubby disgusting reasons.
@slpng_giants_oz@AlboMP Albo wouldn't be in the position he's in without 'keyboard warriors'
Does he think he slayed Morrison on his own? That's very cute but not based in reality
Btwn 2019 & 2022 Albo chose to be a 'small target', we did the heavy lifting to expose Coalition corruption & rorts
🐝
How the fuck do we live on a planet where if a woman reports her rapist she’s a lying, gold-digging, man-hating bitch but if she doesn’t report her rapist she’s a cowardly, fucked-up tosser for not saving other women from a violent man (and also most probably a liar)?
#NewsCorpse
YOU are NOT the victim Linda Reynolds.
You are self absorbed, demented narcissist, who’s not fit for any elected office, but never to be in any form of supervision.
From the Director of “Out of Shadows”, comes his newest film,
“Into The Light!”
This film has been banned, doxxed, cyber attacked for all the wrong reasons. It’s time to sit down and watch it and gather friends and family around to do the same.
We need to maintain momentum to see, understand, and exploit the vulnerabilities and the enemy we are all facing.
This film lays it all out.
Thank you Director Mike Smith @Crux41507251@briangamble_v1@laralogan
@JosephJFlynn1
@BarbaraRedgate
@realflynnpac@floydbrown@RogerJStoneJr@tracybeanz@annvandersteel@DougBillings@IvanRaiklin@KariLake@boonecutler
Everyone needs to check out:
https://t.co/VrOlMi2tJG
@marquelawyers Almost seems like a plan maybe a well paid plan?
Gen question, bce why, why in the world would certain media companies attack soo hard for a nobody? Why?
I don’t know much but I do know there has to be something else going on. It’s all very outrageously odd🤔🤷♀️
I wonder what it is about women's sport that gets the book-burning Christo-fascist LGBTIQA+ hating and trans science illiterate morons so riled up?
Morning, Kobie! 🖕 #Matildas#TilitsDone#ItsAWin#GoYouGoodThings