This CS is disgusting AF, the same Nigerian girls that normally do what I read In a year and you guys will still say it's not self help, girlies on Tiktok are doing book reviews and recommendations and una dey talk rubbish, most readers even download PDFs cause prices of books are expensive just to read. Y'all need to touch grass mehn.
Maybe I’m just not evil enough, but I can’t imagine whining at my boyfriend for sex after he repeatedly said no and then enjoying him lying underneath me in silence after he’d given in
Ask a woman why she hates men - she'll tell you a horrifying story involving violence, abuse, and harassment.
Ask a man why he hates women - he'll complain about feminists, girls using him for free meals, and a friend who friendzoned him once and didn't put out
Women who went to school and earn a certification to work legitimately is the one this nuisance is reducing them to this level?, a badly raised boy child I always preach about
You need to see the joy on olodos' faces when a very academically sound person doesn't succeed in life. They relish it. It's almost as if it gives them more reasons to talk down on education and intelligence.
When we were graduating, after I finished as the top student in my class, many of my coursemates were really eager to see how I would turn out. In fact, I would always hear them gossiping: "No be by Best Graduating Student. To make am for life no be by acada. Street na military. We go see."
I'm glad I turned out really well. Even most of those who went to Ghana for "updates" after school and eventually resorted to fraud can't measure up to my accomplishments. Till today, many of them still randomly call me and jokingly ask, "Senior man, you just dey chop dey go. You no wan give men update na!"
Deep down, they genuinely believe I must be secretly involved in fraud. This is the society we live in, where many young people have come to believe that you can't succeed legitimately, and that every young man who is doing well for himself must be involved in fraud. Even many elderly people and police officers aren't exempt from this line of thinking.
I haven't seen a country that is trying so hard to make education unattractive like ours.
"School na scam."
"No be by BSc. You get BTC?"
"Education is the key to success. Oya, use the key start Benz na 😂."
"Lecturer pack 1999 Camry, student don pack Lexus beside am."
If we continue this way, in a few years, there will be nothing left of our educational system. We are so money-centred that we don't even realize education can be an end in itself and not necessarily just a means to an end.
Everything has become, "How much do you have in your account?" or "Use your intelligence buy Benz na."
This is one of the reasons it really hurts me to see highly intelligent and brilliant people end up poor. I'm always rooting for academically sound people to succeed because I genuinely want people, especially young people, to see that you can make it legitimately through hard work and academic excellence.
Any society where only the olodos become financially successful while the brighter minds, the ones who believe in due process, continue to struggle is a society that is bound to fail.
Nigerian men can be obsessed with wristwatches, shoes, gadgets, or anything, and spend thousands of naira to get them but draw the line when a woman likes wigs, shoes, bags, or the same gadgets.
You’ll be fine.
The reason your mother fried Akara to send you to school is so that you can be a better citizen of the society and have a fighting chance against poverty. She didn't do it for you to come online and defend frying of Akara as economic empowerment. Don't waste her efforts.
Being depressed as someone who has experienced depression since like 10 years old doesn’t really affect my day anymore. It’s just like fuuuckkk I’m really lazy and gay today
I don’t care the state of the nation, meat does not count as push gift 😭😂😂. Yes, I am a witch. Yes, that’s why I am unmarried and childless . Yes, yes, yesssssssss!
Identifying as Black before being Female is the philosophy of dullards.
Female oppression is as old as human civilisation and older than the first time a White person ever saw Black person and noticed they were a different skin colour.
If I told you that you had to be somewhere at 7am to collect a cheque for a £1 million and if you were even 1 minute late you wouldn’t get it, you’d be there, in fact you’d probably get there early. You just don’t respect other people’s time enough which is a character flaw.
Ahasuerus didn’t just punish Vashti for refusing his command. The justification for removing her was that her defiance might inspire other women to question their husbands’ authority. That is to say, even a tiny minority of women deviating from the prescribed role of motherhood is considered a threat to the entire social order.