@DiceRollHua It’s not like I’m shoving it down their faces or forcing anyone not to read it. One of the main reason why I announced it is so that no one would wonder why I have them blocked or sb’ed. And I stand by my word that I won’t be supporting any of her future work 🥲
Girl, do what u want but im done with anything that has to do with dyk. Im just saying that ill be muting n blocking ppl bcs i dont want to see any of her sht in my tl. And this is how i heal from ws, not consuming another recycled trash.
Joian lookalike ≠ joian
I'm going to yap (like usual) here... buying the work is a personal choice. Muting/blocking someone for choosing to support it is also a personal choice. No one is deciding what another person can read or how they can spend their $. They’re deciding what they want in their own space.
Some people repeatedly said an author had crossed a line & insisted they wouldn’t support another work, then reversed themselves easily. Not buying one bl isn’t a necessity or a serious sacrifice lets bffr. Purchasing it (& whatever else) is a deliberate choice to support that author directly after making several declarations that you wouldn’t. I know some felt some kind of way when I brought up self-respect, but it does look like weak conviction. You’d expect the ppl who spoke most forcefully to stand as firmly as their words.
I think connections on here can be genuine & still reach a point where the ppl involved no longer share the same values or boundaries. No one has to copy anyone's decision(s) to prove loyalty but no one is entitled to continued access either. Treating the purchase as personal freedom while portraying the response to it as shallow or controlling only respects one person’s autonomy. Okay done yapping now lol