We are all programmed to live within our own paradigm; components of limiting set of rules, standards, beliefs, attitudes, and expectations that fulfills our roles (in society) that shapes us, who we are within this human experience.
i know they aren’t our responsibility but somehow it’s depressing to see our parents getting old while we’re still struggling to be stable in life, it gives so much pressure to some. the feeling of guilt is strong when we can’t afford the things our parents want or we failed +,
i’m glad the girlies are finally talking about how your body rejects someone if they’re not right for you and how you need to pay attention to how you physically feel around people
One thing about me, I know how to be cordial with EVERYBODY. I can know you don’t like me, in competition w/me, talk about me, envy me, judge me, and hate on me. I’m STILL gonna smile,speak, and maybe even hold a conversation with you, because at the end of the day that’s a PERS-
when you ask someone to show up for you in an emotionally safe way and they refuse to learn how, rest your mind. allow it to stop creating excuses for their behaviour. people do their best to show up for who they believe is worthwhile, and that’s an answer in itself.
I know for a fact in all my relationships I did my best to be a good partner/woman . Though I wasn’t perfect, I always had the best intentions. It’s refreshing to see how even though those connections ended, the same individuals who mishandled and mistreated me are going out of their way to watch me be happy knowing they no longer have a place in my life. I definitely made mistakes along the way, but I’m happy to know and now see that I wasn’t the problem. The universe may take a while to show you certain things, but know as long as your heart is pure the truth will reveal itself.
coming into connection with someone should feel like you’re joyfully bouncing a ball back and forth between the two of you. it should not feel like you’re passing a ball that they walk away with and then you chase them tryna get it back. that’s not it
your partner is not your parent. they are not there to give you the endless unconditional love you absolutely deserved as a child - that is not a role they signed up for. they are there to create a kind and loving and connection with you - but that involves healthy conditions.
Let’s normalize direct emotional communication:
- “I’m going to be spending some time away from my phone the next couple of weeks, I won’t be texting much”
- “I’m focused on my career right now, and I can’t really be in the middle of this”
- “I’m going to take some space tonight, I’m feeling a little off and need some me time”
- “I have a ton going on right now, I’m not in a headspace to help out”
- “Hearing this is triggering because my resources are low, do you have anyone else who can support you?”
- “I’m still working through how I feel. I need a more couple of days before we have this conversation.”
been manifesting to work on more Commercials 🙏🏽 and I’ve had opportunities to work on commercials at least twice a week now 💖 SEEK FOR MORE OPPORTUNITIES! WORK FOR IT🤩 everything will fall into place