i'm in love with this quote:
"if you're persistent, you'll get it. if you're consistent, you'll keep it. and if you're grateful, you'll attract more of it."
"A Dom is born naturally. It's in the blood." Is nonsense.
Dom is built through communication, consistency and experience.
It's something you develop and not something you're born with.
Nobody is born knowing consent, emotional regulation, conflict resolution and aftercare.
GREEN FLAGS IN A WOMAN
• She's proud to love you publicly and privately
• She respects your time
• She communicates like an adult
• She has her own goals, hobbies, and friends
• She takes accountability
• She supports you publicly
• She makes you feel safe
• She's loyal when it's hard
• She builds you up
• She shows up
A green flag isn't just what she says. It's what she does when no one is watching.
Keep her.
BDSM ist nicht nur Schmerz & Lust. Es ist das tiefste Vertrauen, wenn Du Dich komplett fallen lässt und bedingungslos aufgefangen wirst. Diese intensive Seelenverbindung geht unter die Haut, richtig?🖤🔗
#BDSM#Kink#TiefeVerbundenheit#Submission#Trust#Bondage#DarkRomance
Wild take, but subs are people, with their own wants, needs and limits. If you care about them, you will respect those limits.
Subs remember: if they don't, you deserve better
☆ Men ☆
Don't be mad at your subs when they say "no".
Be understanding.
Be respectful.
Be receptive of their limits and boundaries.
"No" is not an option for you.
It means "NO!"
“Over my knee, now”
“Do you want to repeat that?”
“You’re my sweet little angel, aren’t you?”
“Why don’t you put that mouth to good use for once”
“You look so cute when begging”
“Is my princess enjoying herself?”
“Use your words, sweetheart”
“Good girl, take it like that”
It's not just rough sex and pushing limits. It's trust. It's passion. It's patience and consideration and safety, and all the myriad things that romance entails.
☆ Doms ☆
Being a true dom is being...
Respectful.
Considerate.
Patient.
Adatable to your subs needs. Respectful of boundaries. Understanding of their limits.
What you see in porn isn't real...
Uplifting a sub doesn't make you less of a Dom.
A sub who grows under your guidance reflects your capability.
If you think empowering your sub diminishes you. It says more about your insecurity than it does about dominance.
Suppression is weakness. Uplifting is strength.
Everyone associates domination with sex. Sex is just a tool. Domination is a lifestyle, it's complete trust in another person. It's a peaceful life with someone who will decide for you, who will take responsibility off your shoulders, who will take responsibility for your life..
Non-sexual turn on: when someone sees you as a whole person, embracing all of your little oddities, passions, traumas, fears, anxieties, particularities, strengths, flaws, and unique brain flavors. Feeling truly ✨seen✨ as YOU.