i do not believe you need to be 100% healed to be in a beautiful relationship. you do, however, need to be aware of your scars, your pain, your triggers. you need a high level of mindfulness and willingness to work through the shadows that relationships bring to the surface.
in my 20’s I’ve learnt that when people know they’ve sabotaged chances to have a healthy connection with you and don’t possess the maturity or humility to repair it, you’ll be painted as the problem to others because they can’t admit their faults. and you have to let them do that
to whom this may concern;
there is much more to come for you, experiences that are patiently awaiting your arrival, potential that exists within you waiting to be tapped into; trust that you are divinely on time, what’s for you and who you are meant to be can never be rushed.