everyone should know her story, if you don’t please read about it. we should never blame celebrities for wanting privacy, security and distancing themselves from fans.
i saw a girl on tiktok who said "accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script & make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match" felt this to the core.
I wish more people understood that unhealed childhood trauma doesn't just disappear. It shows up decades later as autoimmune disease, heart issues, chronic pain, fatigue and mental health struggles.
What happened to you at 4,10 or 15 may still be influencing your health today as an adult.
once a person shows you that they not only lack the emotional capacity to hold space for how their words or actions affect you, but simply don’t care to, you revoke access and withdraw you energy completely.
You are not meant to train a grown person to be empathetic. If you keep having to explain why your feelings matter, the issue is not your delivery, it is their capacity. Empathy is chosen, not forced.
Narcissists never admit they’re wrong. They blame everyone but themselves for their actions
They sniff out empaths with an agenda to psychologically and emotionally destroy them
Narcissists consistently self aggrandize and praise how great they are with such delusional grandiosity despite noticeable flaws, cruelty, and disastrous failures
Narcissists are habitual liars who use projection deflection tactics, run smear campaigns to cover up their vindictive shit
Narcissists’ love is conditional and if you dare question them, criticize, and set boundaries, they dispose of you quickly
Narcs think they are gods and that you should worship them without holding them accountable for anything
Free yourself from these energy vampires who didn’t earn your respect, don’t deserve your attention or praise
You can't gaslight a skilled communicator with strong pattern recognition, intuition and discernment. You can't convince them they're the problem when you can't even hold space for an uncomfortable conversation because you're too self absorbed to face yourself.
You should never be expected to be the bigger person when you didn't create the discomfort in the first place. Too many people cause the chaos, cross the line, then want you to Swallow vour feelings just to keep the peace, Nah. Accountability matters.
stop letting people manipulate you into believing all you wanna do is argue when you’re speaking on what they did to you or how they made you feel .. that’s a narcissistic babe & you will NEVER win in their world. get as far away as you can!
Parental 'sacrifice' is a myth. A child's wellbeing is a parent's responsibility, not a favour. Any sacrifice is yours to bear, not theirs to repay.
Raise them fully cognizant of your challenges but know that it's duty, not charity.