Never underestimate the danger of people who need to feel morally superior. They can justify cruelty as correction, betrayal as honesty, and envy as concern. Once a person believes their ego is virtue, they become capable of harming you while feeling righteous about it.
When you realize ulterior motives too far into the future, they try to gaslight you about it. That’s been happening to me since I was a child, you won’t mind fck me out of trusting my intuition. That’s a disservice to myself