no one talks about how hard spiritual growth & trying to become a better woman is. its not a one time thing, it's every day. It's remaining quiet when we want to speak. It's trusting God's timing when we would rather have control. It's doing it God's way when it doesn't make sense to us. It's hard, but it's worth it.🥹💜
Girl to Girl: Please ensure that the lifechanging decisions you make are YOURS and are informed. Whether it's marriage, childbearing, or furthering your education. Question EVERY important decision and be sure they are fully YOURS, not society, relation, or culture-influenced.
fear of communication is trauma based. you either feel like your voice doesn’t matter, you think expressing how you feel is going to bring negative consequences or you’re used to being silenced and invalidated
One thing I cannot stand is when people try and make you seem crazy for being right. I have been a lot of things in this lifetime but stupid is not one of them and my ability to put the pieces together should be studied!
Being able to see both sides of everything is the reason I’m so forgiving. I understand that some of yall are genuinely crazy. Genuinely insecure. Genuinely stupid. Genuinely still hurt . Genuinely feel powerless. Genuinely don’t know yourself. Genuinely lost. Genuinely confused.
I don’t believe in saying fcked up things to ppl out of anger. To me you’re saying exactly what you’ve been feeling, and you expect your anger to excuse it. I take words very seriously.
I saw a post that said : God sat me down this year & said "This the last time I'll teach you these lessons before you finally get it" I swear I learned from them. I'm not wasting any more time on people and things that do not serve me. . . I felt this 🙌🏾🥺