sometimes as an adult you have to decide โthis is the last time these people are gonna make me feel this wayโ & stand on it. rather that be family, a relationship or a friendship
everybody is shocked when you start being real serious about your bounderies, like yeah surprise, i'm not a people pleaser anymore so let's see how cool we really are
do yโall ever get super paranoid that people are just pretending to like you and youโre actually just some big inside joke that everyone is hiding from you to keep making fun of you in your face? is that a common thing?
I think people donโt realize in order to have real ones around you it requires a lot of honesty on your end and whoever reciprocates that authenticity is your people and the ones that exploit that honesty are morally corrupt in general like itโs that simple
I feel extremely disconnected having conversations with people that donโt ask questions back. A lot of people only know how to talk about themselves and relate back to them, itโs exhausting talking to someone like that