Nicki spent FOUR days online dragging Cardi’s 7 year old daughter calling her names, making slick comments, and fueling her fans to attack a child. And now she wanna backpedal with a weak apology? Nah. You crossed a line. Kids are off limits and so is your tired “bigger reason” excuse. You’re just nasty.
Breakups are ok. Losing friends is ok. Moving on is ok. Healing is ok. Saying no is ok. Being alone is ok. What is NOT ok is staying somewhere where u don't feel happy, valued, loved or appreciated.
Staying in a relationship just because you love someone is not worth it. love is not all you need. Respect is what you need. Time is what you need. Reassurance is what you need. Happiness is what you need. A bestfriend is what you need
Baby Future is 11 years old.
Russ has been in that child’s life since he was 1.
For y’all to still be discussing how that family chooses to run and operate their household is mental illness at this point, because what’s the end goal?
When do it becomes????
a girl on tiktok said “healing is so hard because it is a constant battle between your inner child who is scared and just wants safety.... your inner teenager who is angry and just wants justice.... and your current self-who is tired and just wants peace." and it hits me hard.
Yep! Rushing does long term traumatic damage to the nervous system. Slow down when you can. Watch how much comfort you find in pacing yourself. Pace is an undervalued self-regulatory skill.
Pro-tip: listening to a slow/mid tempo music in the morning can help you find your pace.