Her telling the parents not talking about sex does not in fact solve any issues+ making David and Steve go to Jack's funeral. And the finale bouquet toss
I'm not entirely sure it's an unique situation to this one show. People simply (especially on social media and people who got into fandoms relatively recently probably) have conflated having an absolute favorite something with NEEDING IT TO BE the best in the category
I'm confused tho because who was going into this show WITH that mindset? The answer is it should have been no one. There was never any issue between book fans.