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@Risu_System I agree. But the big question is which coping mechanisms are "bad" and who gets to choose what is bad and good? What helps one system may make another worse. Of course, if it's hurting OTHER people, it's always bad (or at least executed poorly).
@SkylarTwisty @reallygoodtakes @atreuslore @DiscussingFilm I blocked her. Not because she upset me, but because it's not worth my time. You know what's funny? I didn't get offended. The person who posted it was super nice about it. The only one who DID get offended, acted abelist and angry, was Skye. Stay safe, everyone. Fuck bullying.
@SkylarTwisty @reallygoodtakes @atreuslore @DiscussingFilm Lol trolling doesn't bother me darling. Continue on... I've learned I don't need to prove myself to anyone. BTW thanks Farley. But I wouldn't waste my time. :) they're obviously just trolling. It is what it is.
@SkylarTwisty @atreuslore @DiscussingFilm Didn't say it was. We weren't trying to be rude. We were raising awareness because many people don't know that flashing lights and fast moving pictures made into memes like this can cause seizures. To try to silence us when we kindly raise awareness is ableism.
@TomHolland1996 is this true? Plz don't do this! We love & idolize you. Don't add to the stigma of dissociative identity disorder, pka multiple personality disorder! There's a big stigma that we are all crazy and dangerous but it's not true. Do your research & turn down the role!
I get very tired of the argument that "DID is about more than having alters," because while I understand where you're coming from, having alters is in fact why you get diagnosed with DID rather than PTSD or another dissociative disorder.
And nobody has a right to tell anyone else how to live their own life. As long as they're not hurting anyone or anything, it's none of your business. You can think whatever you want of that system/person, but you can not dictate how they live their life.
Alter age doesn't ALWAYS equal the body-age equivalent. Of course we should protect our Littles and vulnerable alters, but each alter should be treated as the complex individual that they are, and nobody has a right to gatekeep other systems' alters.
Adam "Kira" (17yo gatekeeper)
Some people seem to think that DID is a bunch of people in one person. And it sure feels that way. But child alters in an adult body are NOT the same thing as body age children. Respect the system's requests for their own alters. Because their alters are parts of THEM.
@outsidersalli The worst should be about acceptance, love and growth. Inviting one another in. Embracing each others' existence. Not acting like a bunch of children, refusing to share their toys.
@outsidersalli But it's not right to judge them without knowing them. Or to gatekeep the way they live when they are only trying to live their lives and survive another day without a bullet in the head.