So many of yall dating woes would be solved by cutting people off at the first sign they don’t like you! It doesn’t get better from there, I promise! Ambivalence in dating should be treated like outward hatred…get out!
Do not marry the “I’m sorry to hear that” and “that’s crazy” type of niggas. Marry the nigga who says, “Where are you? I’ll come get you. I got you. Let’s fix it. I’m on my way. How much? Let me make a call. It’s handled. How can I show up for you best?”
one day you'll run into a guy you aren't attracted to, but he treats you right from the start and you'll force yourself to give him a chance, it's very important that you ignore him
Spiteful and vengeful people assume you’ll be exactly like they are and constantly watch over their back waiting for you to get your get back. I’m not you lol.
PLEASE avoid eggshell type of relationships, can't express yourself, can't be yourself, can't be straight forward, can't be comfortable, can't talk like adults, can't be heard, can't respond with love without it actually turning into something negative...