A lot of people are not bad people...They've just allowed their unhealed wounds to dictate and direct their life...They've become the people who hurt them.
Be mindful of the content you consume, media you are watching, conversations you are having and the energy you are cultivating β guard the gates of your mind with care, be selective with your attention.
I noticed I was subconsciously attracted to meanness. I wasnβt sure why. And then I realized itβs because I didnβt want to address my own meanness within. I wanted to be around people who are mean so that I wouldnβt have to hold myself to a higher standard. I wanted someone to dare that meanness out of me so that I would have an excuse to βlet it outβ instead of addressing my anger. +
My favorite genre of internet content are posts by people fresh out of college, who have broken into some prestigious field realizing just how fake and made up the professional world is. Itβs a fun cognitive dissonance. Remember, weβre paying you to be available!
Nice kids are great, but people need to remember "bad" kids need the most kindness even if they aren't yours. There was a boy that was just awful, breaking into my garage & destroying things. The other kids hated him. One day, I saw him watching my kids & I drawing outside. 1/9
so what is so hard about getting a vasectomy? then a man couldn't be forced to have childrenπ the cognitive dissonance in (1) acknowledging irresponsibility from both parties but contraceptives being only on the woman and (2) open contempt for his many partners he chose himself
Suriya Bonaly landing the one-footed backflip in Nagano, with an injured Achilles tendon, as a middle finger to the judges.
Twitter would have crashed that day
Just in case you need it: settings & support > settings & privacy > accessibility display & languages > accessibility > video auto play > select βneverβ
So that videos on your timeline donβt automatically play without your consent
why are you rushing? why are you eating so fast? why are you in a hurry to get home? why are you breathing 25 times a minute? your nerves are burning out. your body does not feel safe. one day, at the end of this life, you will look back & realize you were racing towards nothing.
i donβt really know how to explain it. iβm taken. iβm in a relationship with myself. itβs fruitful. a sunny place with occasional clouds and rain but nonetheless, vast and full of growth. there is peace here and understanding. i love her. me. us.
Childhood trauma doesnβt come back as a feeling, it comes back as a reaction. When people look like theyβre βoverreactingβ to something: theyβre not. Theyβre reacting to the core wound. Ex: βYou didnβt do the dishes again! Whatβs wrong with you!βππΌ
i learned years ago to stop taking what people do personally. i found out that when their behavior changes, seemingly overnight, itβs because theyβre going through something. most times it had nothing to do with me. it was a wild realization. doesnβt justify but explains.
If someone gasses themselves up without putting anyone down, and you take it personally; the problem is with you⦠People should be able to express how incredible they feel or how incredible their life is, without you feeling personally offended by their joy.
βWeβre heading toward is an insurgency, which is a 21st-century version of a civil war, especially in countries with powerful governments and militaries, which is what the US is. An insurgency tends to be much more decentralized, often fought by multiple groupsβ
We really get bad quality service and equipment from companies that provide to consumers while they get paid as much as they can for the absolute bare minimum
Idk. Iβve watching some of these videos in response to this ruling and they fr on that clock app milking tf out of it for trends. Making jokes about neglecting children with special needs?? Some thoughts I wish yβall would keep to yourselves.