One uncomfortable reality that ramai orang tak suka nak acknowledge is that society doesn't judge poor spouse selection equally between men and women.
Bila seorang perempuan tersalah pilih lelaki, society generally akan extend sympathy dekat dia. The blame goes to the husband that she chose, or kat wali yang meluluskan the marriage.
Whether we like it or not, women are often given the benefit of being viewed primarily as victims bila marriage gagal.
For men, though, expectation masyarakat jauh lebih brutal.
Siapa perempuan you pilih jadi bini, then the consequences of that choice, fundamentally, are your responsibility to face. Society tak bagi lelaki the luxury nak lari dari accountability for a decision he made himself.
Part of the reason is simple.
Dalam Islam, the power of talak ultimately rests in the hands of the man. Sebab tu men are seen as the one holding the exit door to a marriage. Kalau seorang lelaki benar-benar percaya the marriage is beyond saving, or his wife betul-betul a disaster, he has a way out yang relatively wanita tak ada dengan ease yang sama.
A woman trapped with a problematic husband selalunya kena deal dengan legal processes, family pressure, financial dependency, and the question of children in which semua tu buatkan jalan keluar jauh lebih complicated daripada sekadar "leave and move on".
But beyond all the debates about rights, responsibilities, and accountability, ada satu benda lagi besar yang ramai modern people dah lupa pasal marriage.
Marriage needs to be understood as something bigger than biology.
It's an act of ibadah.
It's effort to bring to life the Sunnah of the Prophet.
It's a shared journey towards the redha of Allah.
It's a school tempat you belajar sabar, syukur, sacrifice, leadership, and rahmah.
Once lelaki benar-benar faham benda ni, the way he sees himself as a husband and as the head of the family will change completely.
He no longer sees himself as a passenger yang rasa entitled nak complain every time the sea gets rough.
He is the captain. And every captain knows the sea was never promised to be calm.
You chose to belayar.
You yang kemudi.
And ultimately, you're the one who akan dipersoalkan where you navigate that ship.
You'll have a hard time digesting this concept kalau you're the type of guy who sees/treats women as your equal and conveniently lupa that the Prophet long ago informed us women itu kurang akal and kurang agama.
You cannot enjoy the warmth of femininity if you refuse to deal with their deficiency.
Sepatutnya lori tu stop dalam 2km dari ambush point, dan askar tu pecah 3 section. Setiap section tawan 2 or 3 rumah.
Kalau musuh heavy, section A boleh regroup dengan B.
Lagi sesuai kalau ambush subuh or magrib.
Fakta yg sebenarnya ialah kerana ramai pribumi yg sanggup jadi anjing upahan penjajah.Contoh paling mudah ialah perang Acheh-Belanda. Belanda tak ramai pun tapi tentera upahan yg ramai. Lihat betapa berbangganya anjing2 Belanda bergambar dgn memijak mayat pahlawan Acheh.
This Indonesian netizen is right. It’s not that this Japanese woman doesn’t know how much harm Japan caused other countries during World War II — she simply chooses what to remember and what to forget based on what suits her.
I fucking love how the Singaporeans tried to get validation from him just for Anthony to call them out and make them stutter.
I miss watching his shows on Astro TLC
Don't forget these people raped kids, killed them, ate them and not a single culprit got arrested.
Instead, we are having a war with Iran to liberate its women.
This should haunt everyone. Please don't normalize it. Keep talking about it.
Bollywood is so anti-Muslim that in the patriotic movie “Mangal Pandey” (2005), they purposefully suppressed this fact.
Major Gordon who fought alongside Indians against British, was a Muslim.
Not just him, but hundreds of British had converted to Islam & adopted Hindustani (Urduvi) Muslim culture and fought with their Indian Muslim religious brethren against British in the name of Emperor.
🔴 Foreign Minister Abbas Araqchi responds to Trump's statement that America is a superpower:
🔴 For us, there is no superpower except God alone, who has no partner. As for you, America is a superpower, but not against Iran.
🔴 If it were a superpower, why hasn't it been able to open the Strait of Hormuz for nearly 40 days now?
🔴 The so-called superpower is powerless against the men of Iran. This is the clear truth for the world. When you ask Spain, Japan, and Korea to help you open the strait, then you are not a superpower. You are merely deluded by your Hollywood movies and believe them to be reality.
Araqchi strikes back and doesn't care. 👏
THIS IS EPIC BELT TREATMENT 🔥
Journalist –– "Why don't you ask for a ceasefire with the US?"
🇮🇷 Iran FM : "Because we want to teach them a lesson so hard that enemies never even think of attacking Iran again" 🔥
Show me diplomat with stronger spine than him, i will wait 🥶
BREAKING : This is absolute courage 🔥
Journalist –– "There are threats incoming about your assassination. What's your response?"
Iran FM 🇮🇷 –– 🔥 "Their threats are beneath our feet. If we feared death, we would not have entered this war, and we would not have offered our finest men as martyrs. Death is an honor for us while defending our homeland
We were born free, and we will die free"
What a man, pure CHAD behavior 🗿
Iranian Foreign Minister Abbas Araqchi attacks Trump now:
“You must send your soldiers to Iran, as you said, to open the Strait of Hormuz if you are brave and stand by your word. Don’t talk so much, just send your powerful soldiers to Iran.”
“And if you are afraid to send them by plane as happened before, we will send you an Iranian plane to transport them.”
“I tell you: within 30 days, in front of the whole world, the Strait of Hormuz will be closed by order of Iranian sovereignty, and no one will dare to open it, not even after 100 years.”
“Ask your friend Netanyahu what we are doing to him and his people every day; we are plunging them into a constant nightmare, and you will soon be rid of this nightmare.”
“This is the first time he has spoken in this manner since the beginning of the war. Truly powerful words.”
BREAKING🚨: This was EPIC 🔥
🇺🇸Trump: We need $2 billion a day to reopen the Strait of Hormuz
🇺🇸US Senator: But the SOH was already open before the war? So what was the point of whole war?
You have created a Global Crisis OUT OF NOTHING” 🔥🔥
BRUTAL REALITY CHECK⚡️🗿
THIS IS PEAK CINEMA 🍿
Journalist : America is all set to deploy ground troops in Iran
Iran Ambassador 🇮🇷: "Let them come, we are ready. They won't be able to attack us and flee like they do in fighter jets" 🔥
Journalist : Are you saying Iran will welcome US troops?
Iran Ambassador 🇮🇷: "Yes, i am not sure if America will be able to remove bodies of their troops" 🤯
Iranians are on 100% confidence 🫡
BREAKING : 🇨🇦 Canadian leader Elizabeth May blasted Netanyahu
“We know who the enemy of peace is. And unfortunately, he has a name. He is Israeli PM Benjamin Netanyahu” 🔥
What a fearless lady. Mad respect 🫡