Most men don’t want to accept the reality that their women/wives cheat as much as them and that they are very good at hiding it. Most of them say “my wife/girlfriend can’t do that”!
Whatever you do. Stay away from the Malawian defeatist mentality. The mentality that there is nothing we can do. It is the way it is there's no coming out of our problems. You consciousness and that of the nation should be separate!!... You are not everybody else! You are you!!.
Moyo ulibe plan yeniyeni. Nde osati daily kudzuka feeling confused or like you’re only surviving instead of living. One day, all of this will come to an end ndipo palibe azakumbukile kuti mumakhala busy motani kapena umavutika motani. Whatever you do in life, don’t just chase success, enjoy every moment, big or small. That’s what makes life worth living.
I once applied for a job at UNCESCR. Annual salary was $72,000. Then they sent me a Personal History form and a questionnaire (interview).
The day I was supposed to send the documents back to them, internet ku mpanje inapenga tu mpaka deadline kudutsa.
Zimandiwawabe.