Nothing about divorce alarms me. In fact, I welcome it with the same energy I celebrate weddings.
If it’s not healthy, if it threatens your life, if it’s not working for you, if the situation continues to escalate, please don’t force any horse to drink water.
Please leave.
Someone once compared grief to carrying a needle in your pocket. Most of the time, you go about your day without noticing it. But then, out of nowhere, you get pricked, and all the pain comes rushing back.
I think that's a perfect way to describe it.