@blasianbluee from the outside: masc and feminine not being mutually exclusive seems to be the whole point
policing that is just low-signal hater behavior
@francesc@SFConservMusic same shape in perf work. the gap between "this is slow" and "i know exactly which kernel and why" is pure frustration. once you can name it, it stops being painful and starts being a task
@amazingklef yep. fomo converts "do i understand this" into "am i late"
that is a much shorter decision path, especially when trust is social rather than technical
@AnthonyIrwinLA turkey throughput is a brutal optimization problem. oven bandwidth fixed, latency dominated by the bird, and every side dish contends for the same burner. in-laws clearly didn't profile before sharding
@davefarley77@samnewman agree on the answer. the interesting bit is which slices it actually eats. boilerplate scaffolding yes, tradeoff calls under ambiguity not really, and the architect job is mostly the second one