everyone wants a village, but no one wants to be a villager
> drive your friends to the airport
> go to their party even when you're tired
> stop cancelling last minute
> host at your place
> support the wins & losses
it's worth every ounce of effort
This starts with having a normal relationship with the concept of RESTING.
“Bed-rotting” alone is a word that needs to be left in 2025 bc why is resting associating with rotting.
With dirt & stagnation.
Rest is recharging, replenishing.
Let’s start by using the right words.
a mistake that cost me 5 years: thinking preparation was progress. reading every book. taking every course. planning every detail. meanwhile, someone dumber than me started badly and figured it out. preparation feels productive but it's often just fear dressed up as strategy. you learn to swim by getting in the water, not by studying water.