@KiloWonga84135@MaxNomaNini I wider who told you that speaking English eloquently makes you a better blackperson than anyone when you have nothing to show for it , she speaks proper Xitsonga this lady and proud of it , for the fact that you could hear what she was saying says a lot , you’re looking 4 accent
@tboseZA@Kaya959 My favourite colour is actually black so I have a lot of black outfits but ironically when I’m wearing green I get a lot of compliments that it suits me so I wear what is comfortable on the first date not too revealing though
@tboseZA@Kaya959 They pretend as if it never happened and just want to carryon living without any care in the world. Mostly they’ll say but it’s not a big deal mos so why are you angry
@kemi_adeleke1 silicone anti-snoring mouthpiece (sometimes called a tongue-retaining device or anti-snore mouth guard). There’s nothing wrong with this and those who advise you to divorce are stupid
@tboseZA@Kaya959 I will not be proud and my daughter has already indicated that she doesn’t approve of the actions or how I react on situations and that one part of me that she will not want to inherit, it’s true kids learn from what we do
@tboseZA My partner lovers the song by Aretha Franklin Bridge over trouble waters, he becomes extremely emotional when the song plays when I asked him he said because he grew up not being taken seriously and was never supported even when he was still married so the song is a go to song
@tboseZA I know about 4 couples who met at work and now they’re married so yes some do end in marriage , Hhayi kodwa shame I don’t think I will do that Mina Hhayi definitely not for me
@tboseZA Quite honestly no, I find it hard to get back to the dating scene because if these ridiculous demands from man and thina who are older, with houses, cars and work for the government it looks like we’re the target market, men are princesses now & us should hustle like men
@tboseZA I was not aware of this I’ve always been a gym and church girl since growing up so it take any heartbreak for me to start doing both but it’s a good thing I suppose , the both numb the pain somehow
@tboseZA It’s important for men to spend time with friends but the ones that make them grow not just drinking buddies, men can’t cope with being alone that’s why they will either get married again soon after they lose their partner/they follow them soon after they died
@tboseZA I never judge anyone for choosing a simple life because I chose that life myself though others don’t think so but I love my simple life over prestige because I will always be in my lane and not chase a better life
@tboseZA When my daughter was still a teen I had restricted her access to most of the sites on the phone and the time she can use the phone but have never confiscated her phone and I would do random checks who she chatting with and she chats about that was my way of control , it worked
@tboseZA I was always told “you don’t choose your parents” even if she’s not going to do anything for you or about it the fact remains she’s your mom you should have told her what is happening but lower expectations that’s all , try to have some relationship with her