A lot of ppl really are great on paper. They have money, stability, a house, nice car, etc. But that’s it. No emotional intelligence, no conflict resolution skills, no self-awareness, insecure, controlling, no sexual discipline, just overall terrible people to be involved with.
My last relationship taught me that the more chances you give someone, the less they value you. They're not afraid to lose you because they know no matter what, you won't walk away. Never let someone get too comfortable with disrespecting you. Love yourself first.