Zenande

[Big Smoke - @Skepta]

🗣️ TINUBU!! TINUBU!! TINUBU!!!
How many times have we called your name?! 😡

[La Bella Don @misshepbvrn]

This usually how it goes

[Rox. 🇿🇦 @rorisanglbl]

I don’t think there’s a single man on this earth who can ignite a fire in me like my mother. 😭 my girl makes me MAD

[Mini Skirt Connoisseur😮‍💨 @chioma_mmeje]

Again and again, we see that the reason many men are triggered when women talk about rape is that, given the opportunity, they absolutely would rape a woman.

[ANNE ODIDA🇰🇪 @anne_odida]

I watched a video that said,"One day,You’ll meet a man who's rushing against his biological clock and It will be your responsibility to fulfill his wishes within a very short time. You'll be forced to drop your ambitions to accommodate his" it’s very important to leave him alone.

[bojack whoresman @LebohangMosia_]

i’m tired of mourning women i’ve never met. i’m tired of watching families bury daughters, sisters, mothers. today i stand with every woman demanding change 💜

[Zennie Booi 🇵🇸🇸🇩🇨🇩 @ZennieBooi]

Everybody except me and my homegirls got engaged this year

[Sibu Mabena @sibumabena]

Guys… sorry for this very unsolicited advice but having recently lost my mom and now having to consolidate all of her affairs, (lucky for me, sis was quite organised but there are still some gaps we’re filling because we didn’t know), I have some tips for those who have a chance to try to get organised.

If your parents are still alive, here’s what you can TRY to do (cos I know some of them are very untrusting about stuff and will think you’re trying to come for ilefa prematurely 🥺🫣) but honestly, the peace I’m yearning for right now will be worth the effort I’m advising you to employ.

1. Prepare a file that has the following:
- Parents’ ID copies
- Parents’ Marriage Certificate (even the one from the lobola meeting)
- Parents’ Divorce Decree if divorced
- All title deeds reflecting their names and car ownership papers
- Municipal bills for the properties and logins to the e-portals for the municipal accounts (this is one of the most stressful things to sort out when the owner is no longer alive…YOH!)
- Bank statements (you can locate debit orders)
- Their pension fund administrators details
- Any business registration certificates and shareholders certificates
- Copies of all their latest policy schedules
- If your parents trust you and you won’t scam them, A list of their logins to their email addresses
- A list of their financial advisors and lawyers and doctors and their contact details
- A list of their creditors and contact details
- A list of their debtors and contact details
- An asset registry with a list of all their assets
- A list of their monthly bills (Dstv, telkom etc and the statements)

2. If this is at all possible, it will save a lot of headache
- Have a meeting with your parents and your siblings to allocate roles and responsibilities in the event of death and record it (written usually or visually if they’re okay with that)
- Write down what their wishes are for their send offs (where do they want to be buried, do they want cremation, singing on singing, which church must conduct etc etc and where the money for all this is coming from). Yea, they won’t be here to dictate to you (🫩) but, it will save you a lot of stress just doing what umufi asked for and everyone (especially the aunts and uncles) know it to be true

3. When your parent does pass away, have the following in the “deceased file”
- Death certificate (and certified copies)
- Hospital or Coroners report or notice of death
- Updated ID with stamp saying Deceased
- Burial notice
- Undertaker Notice

Lastly… get your parents to draft a will with a lawyer and nominate an executor whilst they are still alive 😭🥺😮‍💨 if you can invest in this, it will ease the administrative burden on you guys who have to take over when they are no longer alive.

Losing a parent you are close to is one of the most painful things you’ll ever experience in your existence… help yourself by not having to be in pain and highly frustrated because things weren’t organised when you had the chance.

* I know this is a very difficult subject to tackle at home…and it’s even more difficult to accept the reality of death… but if you do have the privilege of a good relationship with your parents, just try. For everyone else who doesn’t get to do this, I’m really sorry 🫂 I wish things could be better for you ❤️‍🩹

I hope this helps many people.

[𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝𝐚 𝐡𝐮𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐧𝐞 @tsitsiii_t]

declare the killing of women and children as a national crisis

[Skylar ✨ @Skylar_Lorena]

Funny how the busiest people always reply fastest. Asked my mentor and she said, letting things linger means you'll have a backlog to revisit, and delaying communication also holds up other people's work, which means efficiency is compromised. I've seen it. I believe it 🙂

[Ginger @Gboye_Rave]

One of the most beautiful moments is when God blesses you with something you didn't even pray for. It reminds you that He's always working, even in the areas you never mentioned.

[mya cheri ♡︎ @myacherr]

STOP SHOWING UP IN MY DREAMS AND FACE ME LIKE A REAL MAN

[chebetonsteroids @Iam_ronoh]

I love my child so much I’ll never bring them into this world

[大空翼研究院 @DDDDbnb1]

Yes. Not only is it confirmation for me that He lives and hears our prayers, but my friends wins are my wins too.

[‏ً @BALUCIAGA]

love will always return to me. either in a friend, in a hobby, in a memory, in a stranger, and i’m so grateful for that.

[kat foochie. @_ssani]

Once I get that you’re not a curious person whether about me, the world around you, etc. I’m good. I ask questions and I like people who ask interesting questions.

[Masego @Masego]

Being dropped off and picked up from the airport is a love language.

[Ndonga @LwandleShamase_]

I really hate to say this but the only way for a relationship to prosper is for both parties to ncenga one another.

In heterosexual relationships the man will have to ncenga more unfortunately