Kenzie is finally making me understand what people mean when they say date like a white woman. She genuinely treats men as replaceable and thinks a man not wanting to be w her is his personal failing. I rate it like mad
Never make your availability cheaper than your value. When people can access your time, advice, energy, and attention without respect or reciprocity, they stop treating it like a privilege. Scarcity is not arrogance, it is how you teach the world that access to you has a price.
The key to living a comfortable life is confrontation and chaos actually. You have to say no. You have to tell people to fuck off. You have to be mean in necessary situations. A life of peace isn't built off of being a yes man and taking a passive approach to everything
my problem is when I like someone, I immediately go too hard. I'm too available, too generous, too loyal, too caring, too reliable. that's my issue, I always love the way I want to be loved in the hope that it will be the same
Every summer there’s a 6 week span where I have to stay off socials until I’m up-to-date with the current episodes because if I open any of the apps, my day is ruined. I’ve been so good for the past few weeks, but I just accidentally opened socials and saw some shit that I was
Let him plan his entire week but somehow never have time for you. Let him have energy for the gym, the boys and his hobbies but be “exhausted”when it comes to seeing you. Let him show you exactly where you fall on his priority list. Don’t be the desperate woman who accepts being squeezed into leftover time. Be the woman who refuses to be an afterthought in someone's schedule.
the fact that genevieve wasn’t in the season about the working class will never sit right with me especially since the actress was so passionate about the leading couple :(
25’ten sonra aşık olunmaz diyenlerin nörobilimden haberi yok galiba. 25 yaşlarında prefrontal korteks gelişimini tamamlıyor yani hormonların gözü kör ettiği fevri çılgınlıklar dönemi kapanıp beyne mantık yükleniyor. 25 sonrası aşk bitmez. "Bütün kusurlarını, risk analizini gördüm ve yine de seni seçtim" dönemi başlar. Bi nevi aşkın akıllanmış haline geçersiniz.
Confidence doesn't come from believing in yourself. It comes from having done the uncomfortable thing enough times that your nervous system stops flagging it as an emergency. Because nothing is actually hard, it's just unfamiliar.
PLEASEEEE date a man who believes in romance , holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, treats you with kindness and respect.