asian parents have 2 ways of apologizing:
1) “have you eaten?” / “let’s go eat”
2) pretending nothing happened the next time you meet and everyone moves on with their lives
each time i come back from a camp, i am reminded again of how privileged it is to be able to shower with water heater, sleep in an air-conditioned room with a comfortable bed, and simply just living in a house that has more than four walls. i am beyond blessed