una. 🤣 you people really believe liking someone always results in doing whatever they want no matter what. if something come happen you'll be hearing "make she swear say she no know wetin dey sup for hotel."
when women talk about feminism, they mean body autonomy, the right to choose, the absence of victim blaming, addressing issues like child marriages, and just to be heard.
Men often reduce it to 50/50 relationships, unshaved legs, splitting the bill,
or asking women to go to war..
A polite reminder that a revolution does not start on the streets. It starts in the minds of the people. It is started by ideas. Poorly educated people rarely revolt.
"You could have lied"
You people are not serious o. Because I have not seen any valid reason that doesn't imply 'covering her shame'. What exactly is shameful about adults having sex, and in this context, married people?
What is shameful about it that you are telling her to lie?
@Atinuke_Naomi It's affecting MORE than the dating pool. There's an entire generation of boys & girls who no longer blink at crimes like fraud cos it's the path of least resistance for this lifestyle. A kept woman is a wealth signifier and a man with unending generosity is a class indicator.
@Atinuke_Naomi The general populace is aspirationally rich. Men want to be an Odogwu paranran and women, an Achalugo. Wealth is the goal but it is always framed romantically cos the goal is actually an appearance of wealth. We LOVE our status signifiers & what even is the point of overt riches?
if u have issues with social interactions or if you’ve been so isolated that you forgot how to be social, you need to just start complimenting strangers. if you embarrass yourself, at least you complimented them first and they’ll forget that you’re weird for the time being
We’re obsessed with the idea that poor people might take more than they need, but we almost never question why billionaires are never satisfied with what they already have.
The fact that you have to be vulnerable and expose yourself to the possibility of being hurt in order to form meaningful connections just doesn’t sit right with me
I don’t think men act weird with their money shaa.
Nobody wants to be anybody’s bank just because lol
The “men are natural providers” bs is clashing with economic recession and women becoming very active in the workforce. I wonder what the future holds.
I promise you, there used to be a time…
The nation is poor and bleeding.
About ten years ago, once it’s November, you’d begin to smell Christmas on the streets, in the local shops, in churches, even in schools.
A lot has been stolen from us, basic things now feel like luxury.