the fear of asking for what you want in your relationship can also stem from a fear of vulnerability. you don’t want them to know how much emotional power they have over you. if that’s how you feel toward them — why are you with them? what is a relationship without vulnerability?
The most horrific act imaginable, throwing babies out of incubators, was told about Saddam to gin up support for the Gulf War. Now it is actually being done by Israel with full US backing & support while the world watches.
you can continue to feel sad & subject yourself to the disappointment you feel from people who have shown you repeatedly that they do not have the capacity necessary to support you OR you can realign yourself with people who have all the capacity to support you. your choice.
This girl on TikTok said one of the highest forms of love is consideration and I say this all the time somebody that does not spare you does not love you & somebody that does not consider how something could hurt you or make you feel does not care about you!