@ArthurBoreman So much of this back and forth seems to be British people underestimating how much variety of food there is in the US, "don't you eat canned cheese" "don't you only eat American cheese" "you want cooked onions? so you must never eat raw onion" "this gross niche thing is a staple"
@claimerofbones@skeletonnoted If you answer a bunch of questions and results say you're not trans and that makes you sad, there's a chance you might still be trans.
It would probably depend on if you believe a trans person must be dysphoric or want certain surgeries, but I don't really think that's necessary
@LexiconLass It's a discomfort more than pain, and in my experience "getting there" after the pain already started only kinda helps if at all. It's definitely exaggerated.
@LexiconLass It's for sure is a real physical feeling but yeah it's not some unbearable pain. The best way I've come up with to describe ball pain is with eyes. If you lightly flick your closed eye a few times until there's an ache that's about how it feels, it tends to travel to the stomach.
@isolationmoder It's so sooo fucking good 😍 front to back, I almost saw them live at Bonnaroo last year but it rained out I could cry thinking about it, might try to see them later this year in Indianapolis.