Thanks #Canucks for letting us use your barn last night!
Not quite a sellout crowd, but team green won the British Columbia Regiment’s annual Officers vs NCM’s game (again).
@Cynthiasmith077@Theholisticpsyc Yes, they don’t deserve love. They probably didn’t get enough love in childhood and that’s why they’re avoidant, so let’s make sure they never ever experience it.
@strawberryMauu@OrevaZSN Yes, the low self worth/fear/shame gets rigidly protected subconsciously, and manifests through denial and projection. I’ve got a low self esteem myself….
Self awareness is something they lack most of the time.
@THEEonlyRoe@strawberryMauu@OrevaZSN It could be a false ego manifesting as the idealized self to compensate. That’s when you get things like perfectionism and self criticism, sensitivity etc. Narcissism is a consistent, observable personality disorder. Overlaps dont = disorder
@strawberryMauu@OrevaZSN Except from what I understand, someone with NPD wouldn’t identify the low self esteem part. Too well guarded. Low self esteem with a compensatory ego could be a number of things