Major cheat code for life: Always assume things will work out, then do the work to make it true. It’s a mindset of active optimism. Earned faith. It creates a quiet confidence that allows you to tolerate the uncertainty of life better than anything else.
Nah if the sixers win it all next year… I would have seen a Phillies World Series, 2 Eagles super bowls, and a sixers chip all by the age of 30.
Philadelphia is the best sports city in the universe!!!!!
I love a man who calls me while he’s outside. I mean technically you’re not supposed to be outside bc this is my dictatorship but yes call me and make sure the outside activities are approved by the queen.
I’ve never taken anything men did to me personally because they will treat you terribly because they are fighting internal battles of inadequacy and sometimes possible closeted homosexuality.
I can’t compete with someone’s self hatred, that’s between them and God.
Someone who acts like they don't need anyone has usually been forced to survive a lot of heavy situations entirely on their own.
They didn't build those walls for decoration; they built them because nobody showed up when the roof was falling.
Dismissive avoidants are often workaholics.
They often gravitate towards jobs that require a lot of hours and a lot of travel.
Constantly working is a method of avoiding. It helps distract them from the emotions they don't want to process.
Constantly working also creates emotional distance between themselves and their partner, as they never "have time" to spend with their partner.
The older i get, the more i realize that someone making time for you is one of the clearest signs they care. Everyone is busy. Everyone has responsibilities and their own battles to fight. So when someone consistently chooses to spend their time with you, checks on you, and makes space for you in their life, it means something. time is one thing we can never get back, and people don't give it away lightly.
Do not talk about discernment if you cannot recognise when someone needs compassion more than criticism and correction. There is a time to guide and a time to simply hold space for a person who is hurting. Wisdom knows the difference. And kindness knows it even faster.
STREET ADDRESSES & THEIR MEANING
1. Court: Dead end street.
2. Crescent: Curved road with both ends connecting to the same street.
3. Boulevard: Wide street with greenery in the center and along the sides.
4. Avenue: Straight street that runs north-south or east-west.
5. Drive: A road that follows a natural feature (park, ocean, hills, or lake).
6. Alley: Narrow street between, behind, or within buildings.
7. Place: A short street.
I highly recommend you find yourself a clingy (healthy) lovey dovey partner who's super excited about you. Life is too short to spend it with someone who act like showing love is a chore.
what an absolute blessing to be in relationship with people… who demonstrate their love and care for you through consistent patterns of behavior you can trust.