you also need to be studying your *own* revealed preferences btw. Like why do I instinctively dress up a little more when I think X is coming? Why do i avoid mentioning to C when I hang out w D? Why do I tend to do <thing> when <seemingly unrelated thing> happens?
how do these girls wake up every day and meditate and do lymphatic drainage and do their skincare routine and workout and make their matcha and work then go meet up w friends and fuck their boyfriend how
Autism: I need a safe person.
ADHD: I need an interesting person.
AuDHD: I need a safe person who is also interesting and consistent but surprising and calm but fun.
We Caribbean people were meant to ISLAND HOP🗣️
DROP THE AIRFARE PRICES A BEGGGGG
There is no way we have to witness paradise behind screens cause we can’t afford to visit.
The delayed emotional response. Something happens. You feel nothing, or something vague and unnamed. Three days later you're crying in the shower and you're not entirely sure why. Or you're suddenly furious about something that happened last week. You've been thinking your emotions are absent and erratic, but they're on a delay. Safety and stillness allow you to feel them, but sometimes they come bubbling out when there's no more room.
I think if you’re young and still in the process of designing your life you should design with the concept of maximizing freedom of choice in mind.
Create a life that allows you to pivot/leave/stay whenever you want.
If you find that you “have to” do anything, then redesign
Manchester: #JDF Soldier who reportedly killed his spouse yesterday at a house in Three Chain in the parish turns up at a police station with a knife, begging the police to shoot him. He confessed to the crime before leading the police to the location #EasterHoliday#GoodFriday