Dad of 2 GenX, 2 Gen Z and Poppy to 4 Gen Alpha. Army Vet. Married 38 years (Christian Hedonist. Ostentatious Contrarian.
Multifamily Construction Manager.
@SeriouslyMeek@posieswann@valleyofevery Nah. Men are indifferent and restrained by gynecentric laws. I think they're more escapist, checked out, than enslaved.
45 yrs in construction. Tradesman have fascia strength. Not bulk. Bulk hinders efficiency. The toughest men I've ever meet i ran SF and ranger missions with. Lankey. Thin. But could go for days and fight continously.
I’m not sorry for saying this.
After living in the middle of construction site and building a house, I can by far without a doubt say those who work construction are hella strong and probably outdo a bodybuilder any day.
Natural average everyday blue collar guys outworking the aesthetics any day.
@GiaMMacool 45 yrs in construction. Tradesman have fascia strength. Not bulk. Bulk hinders efficiency. The toughest men I've ever meet i ran SF and ranger missions with. Lankey. Thin. But could go for days and fight continously.
@TheGirondin@chimeraslop@AdonisTheBlack Goose found 1 truth and thinks it should be universally applied. No. Some women are starfish. Women in viable relationships are equally involved in a successful sexual encounter.
I'm all that for my wife. I don't see it as exploited. But if I pointed out my wife's feminity, purity and submissiveness, I'd be labeled exploitive and sexist. Crazy, huh?!
This is how women choose. It's called HYPERGAMY & they never deny it.
She wants a man taller than her - so she can feel small & safe in his arms.
Richer than her - so she never has to struggle.
Older than her - so she can enjoy a man who already made it.
Stronger than her - so she feels protected when the world gets dark.
More educated than her - so she can look up to him & be led.
They will scream "equality" on SM, but in real life, no woman wants to date her equal.
She wants a man who is above her in every metric that matters.
That's female nature 101
@mentormqsculus I'm all that for my wife. I don't see it as exploited. But if I pointed out my wife's feminity, purity and submissiveness, I'd be labeled exploitive and sexist. Crazy, huh?!
@posieswann The best advice i could give to women regarding intimacy in marriage, is approaching it as if you've committed to a league sport, 2 player team. Olympic level. What excuse to missing sets (or practice) would your partner accept as worthy of losing the Gold?
@posieswann@valleyofevery That is hard for modern women to accept cause they do not place the needs of their husband above their own yet expect him to place theirs above his at all times.
The thing is that men don't naturally want to marry, but a society needs men marrying at scale in order to be stable and prosperous, you need to be able to harness the power of the "average man," to get him to have stake in society and contribute, and the best way to do that is to give him a reasonable shot at marriage and property ownership... to entice men to marry at-scale, you need to give them a reasonable shot at a woman with (at least) limited sexual experience who he has some amount of authority over, full stop. We don't offer that at scale, we offer, at scale, "gently-used" women at the tail end of youth who men have zero authority over, who can leave them at any point for any reason, who face no obligation to give them kids, who view what most would consider "good wife behavior" as degrading pickme-ism... not to mention that men are told incessantly by society at-large that they're not "owed sex" by their own wives, which is a proposition that would've been unthinkable to offer a man at any point prior to say 2010... women can say this is fair, it's more just this way, the previous way was Patriarchal Oppression, OK, whatever, but be that as it may, the current marriage offer isn't good for men, and instead of getting married at scale, they're shifting slowly towards opting out at scale, do with this information what you will
I expect my husband to say yes to sex. Not every time, but most of the time.
But for some reason because I'm a woman..that expectation is reasonable.
But reverse it... if a man has an expectation that his wife says yes, most of the time that is seen as coercion and pressure.
EXPECTING your spouse to do their best to be sexually available, regardless if it's the woman or the man shouldn't be seen as anything but NORMAL.
@TheXMatriarch Results are chiefly the result of frequency, routine practice basic skills until they are perfected under every condition possible. Women advocate quality but quality (for skillsets) ONLY is made through QUANTITY.
The best advice i could give to women regarding intimacy in marriage, is approaching it as if you've committed to a league sport, 2 player team. Olympic level. What excuse to missing sets (or practice) is worth losing the Gold?
A woman does not owe sex on command.
However, she does owe her man honesty about what is happening when intimacy has disappeared, and she shares responsibility for helping the couple understand whether the cause is exhaustion, pain, resentment, attraction, health, fear, or neglect.
@Stylusmq@peggyeshipman Just a thought. What would it take to advocate for abolition and a unified approach to protecting the Human Rights of all Humans?
Women who have never lived under the authority of a masculine father or have never been in a relationship with a masculine man often interpret STRUCTURE, DISCIPLINE, and CORRECTION as a man being “controlling.”
Si vous êtes blanc, deux choses sont vraies :
- vous êtes victime d’un génocide à grande échelle
- vous subissez la plus grande guerre psychologique de l’histoire de l’humanité
When business is funded by government, business becomes political.
When science is funded by government, science becomes political.
When education is funded by government, education becomes political.
Do you see the pattern?