dating someone who knows you're a work in progress, but still adores you for the absolute fucking masterpiece that you already are is extremely important
Nobody talks about the angry stage of healing. The rage you feel when you realize how much and how long you were taken advantage of. The absolute disgust you feel towards those people that mislead you. It comes in waves. Sometimes you'll feel healed and then it suddenly hits you.
NEVER get mad at your partner for expressing what upsets them... Even if it isn’t deep to you, it may be a serious matter to them. Genuine consideration is key.
Being in a healthy relationship really taught me there's no such thing as 'that's just the way I am'. When you truly love someone you work on those toxic traits, you learn to communicate, you actively listen to each others thoughts & feelings – you adjust, grow & heal together.
your soulmate is someone who’s committed to working things out with you & doesn’t see breaking up as an option. they’re willing to have difficult conversations & are always devoted to finding solutions that make the both of you feel secure, reassured, & happy in your relationship
Don’t ever forget that the right people will choose you, they will see you, they will dive into the depth of you, and you will never have to force those connections. You will always be good enough for them. Anything else is not for you.