@_alexnzoli Our God chosen President is ageing fine like wine. I mean, if healthy had a face, it won't be far from this. He deserves a second term & everything good the universe can offer.
Men,
One day, your son will stand where you stand today,
• Paying bills
• Carrying burdens
• Murmuring alone
That is when he will finally understand the price a father pays when sacrificing himself for the family.
It is not in vain.
Work!
#MasculinitySaturday
Modern parents are raising self-entitled swamp rats.
• They buy them smartphones at an early age
• Dance with them in TikTok videos
• Reward them when they throw tantrums
• Avoid punishing them
• Employ housemaids to carry out house tasks as children sit and play in the house
These children can't wash their clothes, cook a simple meal, or clean the table after a meal.
They even insult housemaids.
Some even talk back to their parents.
These are the children who grow to become the idiots you see saying, "children need privacy."
Which privacy?
The results of a poorly raised child are so many awkward and displeasing teenagers and young adults on X insulting people and disrespecting order.
Children need strict supervision and instant punishment.
Otherwise, the consequences will be catastrophic.
There is a man somewhere driving a car worth more than everything he has managed to save and invest over the last five years combined.
He earns well, better than most people around him actually, yet every end month still feels like survival.
Deep down, beneath the polished image and confident laughter, he knows something is not adding up because earning money and building wealth are not always the same thing.
That is the part many men are never taught. For generations, men have been raised to chase income, not necessarily to understand it.
Somewhere along the way, men are conditioned to associate success with appearance rather than structure. If you look successful, society assumes you are successful. So many men end up prioritising visible symbols of success over financial stability, spending heavily on luxury cars, status, and lifestyle upgrades while neglecting the quiet work of building long-term wealth.
Nobody celebrates the man who consistently invests 25% of his income every month. Nobody gathers friends to applaud emergency funds or retirement plans. Discipline is too silent for social media. Too ordinary for applause.
But that silence is exactly where wealth is built.
Some of the saddest financial stories are not about people who never earned money. They are about people who earned plenty of it, sometimes tens of millions over the course of their lives, yet built nothing that could outlive them and be passed to the next generation.
Men who spend years looking wealthy while remaining financially fragile underneath it all. Men who keep postponing financial planning because they convince themselves there will always be more time later.
Then life happens.
A business deal collapses unexpectedly. A job disappears. A medical emergency drains years of savings within months. An accident changes everything overnight. Suddenly, the same man who once looked financially untouchable is borrowing money to survive, selling assets under pressure, or starting over from scratch in the middle of his life.
That is the painful thing about money without structure.
This conversation is not an attack on men.
It is an invitation.
An invitation for men to rethink their relationship with money before life forces the lesson painfully. An invitation to stop associating financial planning with weakness or lack of money. An invitation to understand that responsibility is not proven by spending it is proven by preparation.
If this conversation resonates with you, maybe it is time to stop postponing the uncomfortable conversations around money, investing, retirement, protection, and long-term financial stability.
Start the conversation here: https://t.co/2QILYqIoQd
I learned something about money: every time you get it through stealing, it will never make you happy, and it will never feel enough. That is why I stopped stealing. Today, I earn my money through hard work and honesty, and I finally have peace of mind.
If you are a teacher, especially in a primary school,
Be very careful when handling children of chaotic single mothers.
Teach them and go home.
Don't even correct them when they make a mistake. Ignore them with their tantrums.
Protect your payslip.