@Onsogbu I hope your children are not here to see how you are fooling yourself here. No report from the screening committee, but you are here talking gibberish.
If you are tempted to assume that Jon Doe is implying that sex is a kind of reward in your own home, you'll be right.
But that's not the all of it.
Sex is an indicator of competence and like I've always said,
"Competence gets compensated."
Your woman's body will hardly respond to sexual stimuli, at least for you, the irresponsible man, who isn't useful or competent to fulfill his promise to her and the family.
This makes her perceive you as a burden.
It is why you are reminded that "women don't love men" because even in a woman's state of nothingness, you, her husband, would always want to climb her.
She's not like you. If she doesn't FEEL safe or secure, she becomes irritated and withdrawn.
Sex isn't like a reward for provision but it is a validator of COMPETENCE.
Go figure!
Sex is not your right in marriage, if you're lazy and refuse to provide for your wife and children.
Anyday your wife decides to open her toto for you, go and give thanks to God and thank her.
Because you truly do not deserve it.
End.
@AdemolaOgudu The tire me oooo. Wetin be Pearl, Jayden, Ryan, etc when we have beautiful names like Kọlade, Adebunmi, Ọlakunle, Ọmọbọlanle, Adefunkẹ, etc
@IdrisAOni1@BashirAhmaad Do your people respect others? One idiot on TikTok was saying he didn’t know whether the Christian fasting is length or breadth. Can you imagine from someone that wants others to respect his religion.